Ryan Minti, non-monogamy expert and mentor. Open relationships, polyamory, or general relationship help.

Meet Ryan,

London’s Non-Monogamy & Relationship Counsellor.

Accessible & effective guidance for anyone
managing the complexities of relationships.



Sessions from £30

In-person or Online

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Ryan really strips back all the layers that obscure what a partnership is supposed to be and feel like.

~ Porsche

Affordable Counselling for all

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What to Expect

My 50-Minute Sessions Include:

  • Mapping your relationship patterns and attachment dynamics

  • Identifying triggers and teasing out recurring conflicts

  • Developing practical strategies for communication, consent, and emotional regulation

  • Showing you what the literature says about where you've been and where you're going

  • Follow-up planning for ongoing support

Note: Sessions are online or in-person, confidential, and postponable on request.

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Who I work with

You want clarity around relationship models, expectations, and emotions - good and bad. I may specialise in non-monogamy (open and/or poly), but my sessions are for all of us, no matter the dynamic, because core principles start with you and flow through everything else.

You experience a lack of connection, incessant arguing, jealousy, push-pull cycles, or other doubts and ruptures. You know in your heart and your head that this isn't how partnerships are supposed to be.

You want a structured, judgment-free space for reflection, mediation, and planning to thrive in your love life.

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Why spend time with me?

I've made (or seen) all the mistakes in relating, so you don't have to. I sense-check clients' relationship models, assisting them to spot the strengths and weaknesses of their approach, helping them arrive at sustainability, and guiding them to stick by core principles.

I exercise an evidence-informed approach using time-tested relationship frameworks, contemporary revisions of modalities, literature, exercises and client-led discussions - the gold standard for humanistic mental health.

My competitive rate, well below the London average of 70GBP, comes from my belief that relationship counselling should be low-stakes and accessible to all as a right, not a privilege.

Book time with me as a single, couple, or throuple. In-person or Videocall.

Ad hoc sessions are £35. Or consider a bundle of 6 sessions for £30 each.

Postponable on request. 2nd sessions are free.

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