
What are you afraid to ask for?
What aren't you talking about?
Get to the real issue with
modern relationship guidance.

Let me tell you that I help clients every day in tackling the pressures of family, friends, career, money, dating, partnerships, health, and more. When you image the idyllic mind garden of your mind, what's blocking you from sitting, wandering and look at the flowers in it?
I'm Ryan Minti, a counsellor based in London. When I'm not helping people just like you to achieve a sense of content and calm in their lives, I'm developing and modernising relationship theories for the contemporary age.

As a Relationship Theorist, I work with singles, couples and throuples to keep them happier for longer. My guidance is fit for all genders and persuasions. I'm available for face to face meetings in London, but have clients from all over the UK and the world who are content to link up on a convenient videocall.
My work follows and develops frameworks explaining attraction, formation, maintenance, and dissolution. I step through these theories to explore my clients' attraction, communication, satisfaction, and breakdown, focusing on needs, fairness, and learned behaviours.

After just a few sessions, you will learn and wield powerful tools to reappraise and find breakthroughs in your dating. They apply to every person and every relationship, but I can find the best fit for your dynamic and obstacles.
There's a way forward for everyone: soft swing, hard swing, parallel dating, non-monogamy, non-hierarchy, anarchy, polycules, polymers and beyond, all find clarity under my guidance.
Book an initial session with me for £30 online or in person. In that session we can discuss locking in a second (free) session.

Non-Monogamy seems full of contradictions. Closeness is key when together, but allowing freedom is paramount. Sex can define the dynamic, but it's very secondary to the romantic connection which drives everything.
When I deconverted from equating love with monogamy, I wish I had a mentor to assist me in the new relationship playbook. Mistakes were made, selves were abandoned, and conversations about discomfort were long overdue. I'm now in the position to be that resource for other people.
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