Ryan Minti, non-monogamy expert and mentor. Open relationships, polyamory, or general relationship help.

Meet Ryan,

London’s Non-Monogamy & Relationship Counsellor.

Accessible & effective guidance for anyone
managing the complexities of relationships.



Sessions from £35

In-person or Online

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Ryan really strips back all the layers that obscure what a partnership is supposed to be and feel like.

~ Porsche

Affordable Counselling for all

Ryan Minti, non-monogamy expert and mentor adjusting his polyamory pin

What to Expect

My 50-Minute Sessions Include:

  • Mapping your relationship patterns and attachment dynamics

  • Identifying triggers and teasing out recurring conflicts

  • Developing practical strategies for communication, consent, and emotional regulation

  • Showing you what the literature says about where you've been and where you're going

  • Follow-up planning for ongoing support

note: Sessions are online or in-person, confidential, and postponable on request.

Ryan Minti, non-monogamy expert and mentor walking down the street

Who I work with

You want clarity around relationship models, expectations, and emotions - good and bad. I may specialise in non-monogamy (open and/or poly), but my sessions are for all of us, no matter the dynamic, because core principals start with you and flow through everything else.

You experience a lack of connection, incessant arguing, jealousy, push-pull cycles, or other doubts and ruptures. You know in your heart and your head that this isn't how partnerships are supposed to be.

You want a structured, judgment-free space for reflection, mediation, and planning to thrive in your love life.

Ryan Minti, non-monogamy expert and mentor in a blue room

Why spend time with me?

I've made (or seen) all the mistakes in relating, so you don't have to. I sense-check clients' relationship models, assisting them to spot the strengths and weaknesses of their approach, helping them arrive at sustainability, and guiding them to stick by core principles.

I exercise an evidence-informed approach using time-tested relationship frameworks, contemporary revisions of modalities, literature, exercises and client-led discussions - the gold standard for humanistic mental health.

My competitive rate, well below the London average of 70GBP, comes from my belief that relationship counselling should be low stakes and accessible to all as a right not a privilege.

Book time with me as a single, couple, or throuple. In-person or Videocall.

Sessions are £35 and postponable on request. 2nd sessions are free.

Schedule with Ryan

In June 2026, to help drive home the last few weeks of writing, and to fund the professional editing of my collation of 100 articles, including ones here on my blog, I'm proud to say that I launched my Kickstarter campaign.

It was accompanied by a memoir of my transition into being a relationship theorist, including true stories from the adult sex party scene in London. It's real. It's a bit naughty.