Social Shell Permeability Test Boundaries Quiz — Rigid or Porous? Sex & intimacy 1. I keep details about my sex life private from my family. DisagreeAgree 2. I share details about my sex life with friends. DisagreeAgree 3. I keep it to myself when I'm excited about an upcoming date. DisagreeAgree 4. I'm more okay hanging out with exes than they are hanging out with me. DisagreeAgree 5. I don't like seeing (pictures of) my friends' body parts. DisagreeAgree Money & resources 6. I’m comfortable lending money to friends or family. DisagreeAgree 7. I prefer to keep finances separate from my partner. DisagreeAgree 8. I’ll pick up the tab or share resources without keeping score. DisagreeAgree 9. I don't like lending things like my car or wardrobe. DisagreeAgree 10. I’m okay with friends or family knowing how much I earn, have, or spend. DisagreeAgree Feelings & Emotionality 11. I share my emotions quickly when I’m getting to know someone. DisagreeAgree 12. I feel awkward when people share intimate details. DisagreeAgree 13. I’m comfortable being the person others vent to or lean on emotionally. DisagreeAgree 14. I keep my struggles to myself rather than leaning on friends for support. DisagreeAgree 15. I am always interested when people who have hurt me in the past suddenly ask to talk. DisagreeAgree See my result Your result Sex & intimacy — Money & resources — Feelings — Take quiz again