My Method.
Soon, your method.
Modern Relationship Theory gives you…
…the map to find yourself,
the compass to orient yourself,
the lifeline to recover yourself,
and the tools to keep building.
First things first:
Client Discovery
Recent Experiences
Whether meeting in-person or online, first, I will ask you what the big projects are for you in your life at the moment. What excites you, what troubles you, who and what are you connecting and disconnecting with... everything you want to share that I might gauge your altitude and attitude along the 6 pillars of living life: Wealth, Health, Family/Community, Friends, Romance, Purpose/Legacy.
Early Experiences
The more we learn about the deep significance of our childhood experiences, the more we see the influence on them in our subconscious patterning in later life. It might seem like woo and a waste of time, but it's a well-researched and observed pillar of modern psychology. For some, it's not easy to share, either because of fog or difficult memories, but in time, your origin story will filter through and will prove a powerful tool in directing our sessions and your future.
Your destination, but mostly your journey
We all have goals, but sometimes goals are the route, not the address. thought of as arrows on a signpost. Success just means heading in the right direction. For each 'living life' pillar, what could you be doing to mean that you're living your best life?
It’s called ‘Work’, but it feels like ‘being’.
Diving Deeper
I have available on my site and in-session a number of questionnaires that help assess personalities and pathologies, which are used to inform the regimen. I use a combination of standard and customised models and processes to find a method that provides results for you uniquely. If any of them intrigue you, then please ask me about them.
Building momentum
I provide detailed notes after all sessions for you to revise what was said to gain new insights. They contain a summary with signposts to techniques and reading material to engage with Relationship Theory more deeply. This is to make sure that sessions with me aren't the only time clients are thinking about their approach to their connections.
Putting it all together, together
Write Ups, Referrals, and Diagnoses
As we reach certain milestones and upon request, I will provide a functional read-back of our sessions, which you can use to remind yourself of the distance travelled, the progress so far.
I'm not able to provide recognised diagnoses.
I'm not yet trained in trauma, addiction, or bereavement.
I’m not trained in specialist techniques like hypnotherapy or EMDR, but I have a strong network of colleagues who are.
Animal Support
I'm often accompanied by my purebred, emotional support companion canine. Lucien is excited to meet you.
“I just didn't know how to ask for what I wanted in my dating until Ryan showed me that I have not just the words for it, but the ability and drive.”
~Leo
Book time with me as a single, couple, or throuple. In-person or Videocall.
Sessions are £35 and postponable on request. 2nd sessions are free.